Building the "new" ordinary

Last 15 months have been a beautiful Hero's journey! Broke my scripts, met Han and have a new outlook towards life. Now I'm coming back. Earlier I just hustled and then take some break and back to hustle again. Well that is not something I want now. I want all parts of me to come out, "play well" and want no part to hijack. There are quite some things I wanna do but the whole ideology is NOT to hustle or run after 1 thing. I don't wanna FIX one thing first and then fix next thing. I don't wanna RUSH. I don't feel good if I'm rushed. Hence no urging by any part to do something. Smooth Sailing!

Life's a random game and I intend on getting a kick out of every day deeply!

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Settling in Dharamshala

We're settling down for a few months in Dharamshala (probably till Bamboo (our baby) learns to walk or maybe more, we'll see). I've missed the comfort of stability, reduced external friction and slow easy living - having a good clean kitchen, some garden, the same bed & my pillow - a house I can setup and call home. Also a mini experiment if we like Dharamshala as a place for buying a land and making our house someday.

I also want to cook meals & be self reliant (something new and might have some pain period)

I look to living closely with nature, watch the sun rise, sunsets, go on treks, do picnics, just sit in our ghazibo, watch the birds go, write about how I see life, get in more steady flow states, increase my tribe, share things and enjoy with them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Honest Writing & Expressing

I really love thinking deep about topics, feel things in my life, write them in a simple way, understand them better & share with the world. Honestly, I feel really good when I write. I love to journal my life. Writing is one of my deep focus zones in which I flow (like writing this now page). From writing about my therapy session insights to giving a story to my past, to writing about philosophies & ideas I resonate with. I wanna do this more, say even spend hours writing this and not make me feel bad in this new ordinary.

I wanna write about my past journeys building Influencerbit, Engagebud & DreamBoat. I wanna share about my current journey of building project Prime & WhatsHappening (starting with their websites) - What, Whys and Hows! I wanna share my insights about different things in life, the matrix, circle of life and flow with energies. With me coming in sync with Nature and peace in Dharamshala, this is one major thing I wanna do. Embrace the writer in me and just express!

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Han & Bamboo

​With Bamboo coming in (~3 months old now in Han's belly), me and Han are feeling a unique closeness. Watching spiritual animated movies in night with Han (and Bamboo), feeling the emotions together & essence of belonging with each other is something I really look forward to everyday. [Highly recommend movies - Your Name, A red turtle]. We're entering 2nd trimester - morning sickness is going away and new adventures await. We're both in the moment, enjoying life and looking forward.

 

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WhatsHappening.ai

​Going deep into react native & building it is something I really look forward to. I really want it in my life so as to remember the context of different folders of my life like ideas for writing. I am sure this is one of the deep flow zones and it is all about starting building it. Crossing the threshold from the period of pain as I've never built mobile app. 

 

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Email Campaign

I made Beatshine about 5 years ago and its MRR has gone from $600 in the beginning to currently ~$220. I haven't done even sanity for the same ever. No first email or any discount ever. I plan to run an email campaign giving them discount with an aim to increase the MRR.

With new expenses coming in, I want to increase my inflow with the first goal to match the outflow.

 

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Script to get leads

​I have ~1TB of data dump in postgresql and I want to use my old laptop and get a new harddisk so as to get leads of businesses with any keywords. No money expectation from it as such but just curious to see quality of leads it gets. I'll try to find people for whatshappening with it and see the quality! So excited about the same.

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Vulnerability Cards - V1

I wanna make a  card game designed to spark real conversations and help people connect on a deeper level. Instead of just casual chit-chat, this game uses thoughtful questions and prompts to encourage players to share what truly matters to them – their values, motivations, and personal journeys. It's perfect for dinner parties or any gathering where you want to move beyond surface-level interactions and create meaningful connections by exploring who people are at their core.